Comments on: Gutted

By: Sonja

Sonja — Fri, 09 Mar 2007 10:36:05 +0000

I’m so sorry Rhys. This will sound so corny, but when you finally see the light at the end of the tunnel, you will find the experience made you stronger and that you will treasure the things you learned from the relationship.

Make sure you let your sorrow out. Cry, talk to friends. Don’t hold it in or it will rankle. I’ve never met you, of course, but you sound like an intelligent, fun, and loving person, and it won’t be long before someone in the real world sees that and wants more of it!

By: andrew

andrew — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 23:08:34 +0000

*manly hugs*

By: Ian Edwards

Ian Edwards — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 22:32:25 +0000

Sorry to hear that mate!

Personally I agree with those that say go out and get bladdered. Not so much for the drink but rather the going out with friends and realising that you have plenty of people around you who care!

Feel better soon,
Ian

By: Sayre

Sayre — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 17:42:41 +0000

Oh, Rhys - so sorry to hear this. You and Han were so cute together and seemed to really have something. However, you, in spite of your recent birthday, are still young. There are lots of people out there and this is not the end of the world. When one door closes another opens and all that rot. But it is true. I’m looking at 45 this month and believe me, my life has never been what I expected it to be. For all of the heartbreaks and disappointments that are behind me, I feel so happy and content with how things have turned out so far. It doesn’t feel that way to you now, but one day it will - I have faith in that.

Sending lots of virtual hugs your way!

By: Brandy

Brandy — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 05:49:56 +0000

Hey bud. I’m sorry to hear about you both. It’s certainly shocking news. I hope you two will stay great friends though. I know how you feel though, even though I can relate to Han during times like this. It’s hard, I know. Hang in there. Things will get better, that’s a promise. That emptyness will eventually start to fill up, and the sun will come out again.

By: nAl

nAl — Thu, 08 Mar 2007 03:52:54 +0000

Relationships are a lot of hard work and most of us don’t realise that when we get into one.

I am sorry it happened, and I am sorry you are gutted. But you will heal, with or without alcohol, and you will be able to stand up a better person.

Love from Singapore in an orchid covered basket.

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 07 Mar 2007 23:41:16 +0000

Looking forward to reading your blog again soon, but take time out to get over this. You can do it

By: Sazzle

Sazzle — Wed, 07 Mar 2007 22:53:19 +0000

OK I am officially the worst friend ever! I remember to send you St David’s day greetings but totally forget your birthday. I even knew it was coming up too and told myself to make a mental note. You may slap my wrist matey! In my defence I have probably only slept at home twice this week and not working has lost me track of time, hell I forgot Ali’s birthday yesterday!! Grr.

And then I check your blog, and this. Well hun sending Sazzle love to you and you know you can talk to me any time you want!! Mwah! xx

By: Z

Wed, 07 Mar 2007 21:29:47 +0000

Here if you need to talk.

By: Z

Wed, 07 Mar 2007 21:28:40 +0000

Hey,

I’m really sorry things haven’t work out, I know how much you like Han. My advice (your prob sick of advice) is stay clear of the bottle it takes the pain away until you wake up and it’s there again. Sure socialise with your good friends as they will always be there for you and if you want have a beer or two.

Take your mum’s advice, it is sound, take Guy’s advice, again, it’s sound stuff and take Celeste’s advice…think when you were a kid and you get told off for doing something wrong and you can’t understand why but they tell you it’s for your own good. I do believe in fait and as Celeste says this could be for the better, sounds crazy now and a lot of crap but in a few years time you may look back and think, “yea, they were right”. Takes in Celeste’s and your mum’s comment…really do live for the day and think positive about the future. I know it’s hard now but hold this thought in your mind.

You are a lot like me, I aint a going out and getting wrecked sort but I do and have a good time with my friends when we go out now and again. I don’t go out to look for a lady I go out to be with my friends and get the famous Rhys phrase of “Good times, great memories” quoted at the end of the night. If someone takes an interest then talk to them but let time come to you, don’t rush it and go seeking - I know you won’t be doing that this weekend but think to the future. I do not know anything that happened, apart from what you have written on here so I will say if you really were meant to be then you will be together some point again, I believe that in life.

I’ll close by saying, cry your eyes out, play a song over and over on repeat, think of the memories and smile. Never ever give up, especially on your dreams.

Take care,
Z